The Reason, “It’s Not That Easy” Isn’t Always Just An Excuse

I’ve heard myself say it a lot – “It’s not that easy”. Every time I say this, it’s pretty much always in response to someone telling me to just get up and do something.

As many of you who suffer from mental health issues (and physical health issues) know, getting over your obstacles in order to achieve a goal you have – whether it’s big or small – isn’t always simple. Even the smallest of activities can seem incredibly difficult when anxiety and other issues come into play. Sometimes the Nike saying of “Just do it” isn’t as easy as 1-2-3.

I know to some, the phrase “It’s not that easy” must seem like a huge excuse not to try. I agree that it in no way should be used as such. However, it’s not always just an excuse. Sometimes as much as we want to just be able to get up and complete a task, our anxiety just wont seem to have it.

I’ve talked to relatives about how I want to do something really bad but how I don’t feel like I can because I begin to over-think until my mind almost convinces myself that something bad will happen. My anxiety kicks in to such a high degree that it makes the rest of my body feel weak, so much so that things I know deep down I’m able to do, seem impossible or close to it. Sometimes my relatives try to be understanding, but even the most understanding of them sometimes say, “If you want to do it, just do it and don’t think about it!”. To that I respond, “It’s not that easy” because, well, it’s not.

I understand that sometimes, people just don’t know what to say anymore. They try hard to help but let’s face it, when you don’t go through something yourself, it’s hard to know what to say or do to help. Even the people that are the best at assisting others sometimes experience moments where they just don’t know what to do – I understand that. Heck, sometimes I don’t know what to do or how to help myself. Still, I ask that people please try to understand that while someone may be trying their hardest, it still may be difficult for them to just get up and get something done – even if to you the task is utterly simple.

To everyone who struggles with mental and/or physical health issues, I’m sorry that you go through this and you’re not alone. I understand that sometimes doing certain things just isn’t that easy. However, please don’t allow things not being easy allow you to stop trying. Never give up!

 

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Author: gettingthroughanxiety

B.W. Ginsburg has enjoyed reading and writing for as long as she can remember. Her favorite authors include: Harlan Coben, James Patterson, and John Saul. B.W. Ginsburg published her first book, Rest in Piece, in October 2016. In addition to writing fiction, Ginsburg also writes about mental health. In her spare time, she can be found blogging, watching TV, and listening to music. B.W. Ginsburg graduated college with a B.A. in Arts; she majored in English and minored in writing.

8 thoughts on “The Reason, “It’s Not That Easy” Isn’t Always Just An Excuse”

  1. Well said. I have been struggling loads lately and it isn’t easy but I need to try harder otherwise I will never get anywhere. Today I am going to work harder. People don’t understand and can’t ever fully understand so I guess it is up to me to work as hard as I can on myself. Some days are easier than others.

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    1. I’m sorry you’re struggling so much lately. You’re right – we have to try our hardest and just keep remembering that no matter what others think, as long as we’re trying our best, that’s all that matters! I wish you all the best and hope things get better for you soon!

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